I never thought of hurting, though words might have seemed for you so. Aren't people supposed to expect the unexpectedness as the life itself lies on uncertainty? Wouldn't it be so difficult to disjoin the salt-bits that mixed in the water? It would, surely. That's why the tune seemed so, not to be much closer with heart as it might hurt much if the fate didn't work in our favour. So let's pray! Let him decide, whether or not should we be joined! Leave it to him with hope. Stay blessed, as you always are! Lots of love!